May 3, 2012

A MAN: Entitlement


Original Entry: December 6, 2011
McMinnville, OR

For even when we were with you, we gave you this rule; “If a man will not work, he shall not eat.”  2 Thessalonians 3:10


I laughed the other day when I read a bumper sticker that said, “Pull up your pants and get a job!” In other words, get off your rear and get into gear!

Part of the problem with men in America is that our society has taken such good care of us that we have been trained that someone will always be there to fix what we have broken. 

I spent quite a while late last night speaking to a woman who is housing two high school boys for free.  Both are seniors, have no job or driver’s license, one is expecting a child, and both are barely passing in school. 

My advice:  kick them out of the house.

Our son James has a job as a lifeguard to pay for his gas, insurance, and cell phone bill. Nearly all of his peers have no job, drive newer cars than me, have high end cell phones, and wear all the latest fashions.

“Who pays for all of this?”

What are we teaching our sons?  You deserve it; therefore, I will pay for it!

We must teach our boys responsibility. We must teach them to work.  One day they will have to work to support a family and be a contributing member of the Church and society. It might as well begin when they are under your banner of leadership. What are you teaching your loved ones about hard work?  The government will take care of you?  If you are lazy or unemployed get up, grow up and get a job!

Some men are physically incapable of work due to an injury of chronic illness but the rest of us are good to go. Be an example of hard work to your sons not the poster child laziness, sloth and gluttony. Paul wrote to the men of Thessalonica, “The one who is unwilling to work shall not eat” (2 Thessalonians 3:10).

Men who will not work are nothing more than boys.