Jun 18, 2012

A Man: The Lap Dance


Original Entry: September 19, 2011
McMinnville, OR

Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes being burned?  Proverbs 6:27

Does the title of today’s entry bother you? It should.

Years ago a man and his wife insisted on meeting with me A.S.A..P..  Knowing this couple, their years in service, and love for the Lord, I agreed to meet with them.

Instantly I knew something big was going down.  She looked numb, pale, and with incredible poise he confessed, “Last week I was fired from my job for looking at pornography on the work computer and masturbating.”

He shared about his secret life of sin, and that he was thankful it was finally out in the open so he could get help! He is like thousands of Christian men today hiding their dirty little secrets.

Like so many men I too battle the demon of lust as well, and protect myself with one of the many online accountability resources offered today. A man is stupid if he does not and is inviting problems.

“Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes (much more if it is in his lap) being burned.”

Scoop!  Did you catch that?

A man cannot avoid women but he can avoid scooping the sin of lust into his lap.  In Matthew 5:27-28 Jesus went so far as to say that looking lustfully at a woman is a betrayal against his   wife! Do not engage in a lap dance with lust.

A man cannot be passive when it comes to lust.  He must go public, bring it into the light, and rid himself of any secrecy revolving around the fires of lust.